Love vs. Society: Navigating Relationships in the Age of Judgment

As I sit in my room, feeling the heat of the day outside, I want to take a moment to thank you for reading this blog post. Your support means a lot, especially as we explore the complex dynamics of love and societal expectations together.

In today’s world, where social validation often overshadows personal happiness, it’s disheartening to witness relationships falter under external pressures. Recently, a relationship ended because one partner feared what their friends would think about their future together. Despite efforts to clarify misunderstandings, the decision to part ways led to deep reflections on love, societal expectations, and the value of genuine connection.

Every relationship has its bumps, and this one was no exception. A simple, innocuous comment spiraled into a misunderstanding that shook the foundation of their bond. After open discussions about feelings and intentions, it seemed resolution was within reach. Yet, even with clarification, the fear of judgment loomed large.

As the dust settled on the chaos of misunderstanding, it became clear that silence and ignorance were merely distractions from the underlying truth. As she stood there, reality set in: he had chosen silence over confrontation, leaving her to unravel the tangled emotions he refused to address. It was evident that true intimacy couldn’t survive in the shadows, and now the truth was impossible to ignore.

What stood out most was the concern over societal perceptions. One partner worried that pursuing a serious relationship might invite ridicule from friends, leading to a choice that prioritized societal approval over the warmth of their connection. It’s painful to realize that someone would choose the comfort of external validation over the potential for a fulfilling relationship. While wanting to fit in is natural, it raises an important question: at what cost?

Love should be about partnership, understanding, and building a future together—not about succumbing to the pressures of those around us. A relationship flourishes when both individuals prioritize each other’s happiness over external validation. True love thrives in an environment free from judgment, where both partners feel secure enough to dream together. When societal expectations dictate choices, there is a risk of sacrificing what truly matters. Instead of nurturing their bond, fear took precedence, severing their chance at a shared life.

This experience highlights that authenticity is key in any relationship. If partners can’t be themselves with one another—if they fear sharing their dreams and fears because of what others might think—then the foundation is weak. Relationships should empower individuals to grow and explore their true selves, not constrain them within societal norms.

Reflecting on this chapter reveals that everyone deserves a partner who stands by their side, regardless of external opinions. The right person will value the connection above all else, willing to face the world together without fear of judgment. While it’s painful to let go, this experience serves as a reminder that love should never be compromised for the sake of fitting in. Embracing one’s worth can lead to the right connections—those who appreciate authenticity and understand that building a future together is far more valuable than fleeting societal approval.

Relationships are meant to be a two-way street, where both partners invest in understanding and nurturing their connection. It’s disheartening to see that in this situation, only one person was willing to fight for reconciliation, choosing love over societal pressures. This imbalance highlights the sadness of valuing external validation over genuine love, leaving one partner to bear the weight of that struggle alone. True connection requires mutual effort and commitment, and it’s painful to realize that sometimes that commitment isn’t reciprocated.

So, as you reflect on your own relationships—whether they are budding or established—consider what truly matters. Are you allowing the opinions of others to dictate your choices? Are you nurturing a connection based on mutual respect and understanding, or are you letting external pressures shape your decisions? Embrace the journey of love as one that celebrates authenticity, where both partners can flourish together.

Thank you for joining me in this reflection. Here’s to fostering relationships built on genuine connection and mutual respect.

Rising from Ashes in Love

With each sip of hot cocoa, I experience a surge of inspiration, like the elixir of creativity coursing through my veins. The crackling fire, the comforting warmth, and the exquisite hot cocoa converge to create the perfect setting for the birth of my forthcoming blog piece - a testament to the beauty of finding inspiration in the simple joys of winter.

Dating after experiencing abuse can be a complex and challenging journey, as it involves emotional healing, trust reconstruction, and the rediscovery of one’s intrinsic value. Today’s blog piece shares considerations and tips for those navigating the path of dating after abuse.

When I left the toxic relationship, my holistic well-being and mental health suffered significantly. I was not the same person three weeks, six months, or a year ago. Despite the tribulations, I triumphed and grew stronger than before. Here I was, allowing one person to despoil my happiness, success, and future. It was naive of me to become so reliant that I nearly lost my sense of self.

After leaving the abusive relationship, dating caused me a great deal of worry and vulnerability. I had no desire to leave the house or go to work. I became aware of my trust concerns sooner and began to overanalyze potential pitfalls. I role-played every bad thing that could happen if I went out and started dating. This resulted in self-doubt concerning my emotional preparedness, self-worth, and self-assurance.

Today, I want to share my recovery path and shed light on the therapeutic mechanisms that facilitated my healing. Heartbreaks are undeniably painful, but they are not insurmountable. The first and most important thing I did was acknowledge and accept the events that transpired. I began to devote more time to myself. Prioritizing self-care became imperative in safeguarding my mental and emotional well-being. Immersion in activities that elicited happiness became a foundation of my self-care regimen.

Associating with friends who uplifted and supported me became a cornerstone of my recovery. I learned to be kind to myself and allowed as much time as needed before embarking on the journey of self-recovery. Seeking support from friends, family, and professional guidance became integral to my recovery process. The engagement of a psychologist facilitated the overcoming of trauma, providing coping mechanisms that helped restore my once-disturbed body image and bolstered my confidence.

I learned how to set reasonable boundaries and treat others with dignity and respect. Soon, I discovered that setting boundaries does not scare off the right person and does not jeopardize an authentic relationship. The identification of triggers that disrupted my well-being marked a pivotal step in my recovery journey. Trusting my instincts and attentiveness to red flags became second nature.

At present, I am working on rebuilding trust, as every relationship needs trust to thrive. However, I remain vigilant in reminding myself to exercise patience, recognizing that the establishment of trust in a new relationship is a gradual process.

Keep in mind that everyone’s journey is unique and recognize that healing is a time-intensive process. Self-compassion, a commitment to well-being, and willingness to seek assistance when needed constitute the foundation of the rehabilitation journey.

After experiencing abuse, it is possible to create healthy, supportive relationships; the key is to approach the process with self-awareness and perseverance.

Lastly, it is okay to talk about your mental health without reservation or stigma.

Thank you to all my readers for showering love and support to my blog.

Soaring on the wings of Solidarity

“Embracing the beauty of my solo journey.”

Please accept my sincere gratitude for your continued support of my blog. I appreciate all of my readers and views. I acknowledged my vulnerability in the last post, and I appreciate your acceptance of who I am and our shared respect for one another.

When I experienced turmoil in my life, a piece of me died. But I was aware that I had been born again. Life is a continuous cycle of death and rebirth, according to Dr. Jordan Peterson. Something better happened to me when I realized I would have to walk on this journey alone once again. I allowed myself to be redeemed by it, I decided to burn off my fear of being alone. I soon realized I was not alone. God is always there to guide me and give me the strength to handle whatever challenges lay ahead of me. I came to the realization that I am the ship’s captain and must not allow anyone to take the wheel. I also promised myself that I wouldn’t let anything stand in the way of my personal development.

Alas, I was making the decision to embark on a solo journey, many conflicting emotions came to mind. My inner self was thriving for healing and spiritual awakening, and I was delighted to fly cage-free. I was terrified, I felt like I was walking on eggshells, my palms were sweaty, and my heart was pounding out of my chest. I knew in my heart that I had to do this for myself in order to regain that happy grin, so I could look in the mirror and tell Nancy, “I love you so much and I won’t waver no matter what challenges I face.” Since it was my journey, I knew I would complete it alone. My adventure would make me stronger than I was yesterday and help me to be a better person than I am today. I made the decision to purchase a one-way ticket in order to take in the mist from the waterfalls, soak up the warmth of the sun while strolling around the state park, feel the cool breeze on my face, dance beneath the blood-red sky, and consume the wilderness once and for all. Photographing the tourists and requesting a favor in exchange for having my photo taken. My self-assurance and sense of accomplishment returned. My inner voice said to me, "I did it, "I'm on my first solo trip, and "this is where I can finally soar high in the open sky."
I didn’t initially anticipate becoming so attached to myself. I felt as though I was slowly falling in love with myself after my first solo trip. More than anything, I began to enjoy my own company. I learned to be satisfied with where I am right now, to not let other people’s expectations crush me, and to be proud of what I have accomplished. Knowing that I could carry a shining light wherever life led me next and that I was on the path to being more resilient, courageous, and daring sparked my soul. I gave birth to my inner child once more. This time, she was going to sing truthfully and dance with fire, painting the darkest nights with light, and chasing her goals and dreams to the ends of the planet. Knowing that I deserve the same grace, kindness, and love that I effortlessly offer to others.

I experienced total rebirth.

Once more, I’d like to express my gratitude to all of my readers for taking the time to read my post.

The Powerlessness of Men

The Desire

I am grateful to all of my readers and viewers for their encouraging comments on my most recent blog post. I appreciate all of my readers who have been patiently waiting for my future blog entry. I'm back with another article on lust for sexual desires.

The sun was peeking through the blinds as I was spending my Friday morning resting in bed. I received a message on my phone from someone I have never met or spoken to.

It amazes me how often men approach me nowadays that I'm eligible just by looking at my social media profile picture. Despite knowing who I am, they messaged me and asked me to join up with them for one night. 

It's interesting to learn that guys today are solely interested in having a one-night stand with anyone who will allow them, regardless of whether they are single, married, separated, widowed, or divorced. They do not care whether a lady is in a relationship or not, be it a marriage or another kind of long-term, short-term, committed, or casual connection.

Because there isn't much intimacy in their relationship, many married men or guys in committed relationships look for someone else. They can make contact with a fresh woman who will give them new energy for the day. They don't care about their relationship; all they want is a single night of informal prostitution.

Strangely, one of the men who approached me wanted to hook up with me even though he was married and had a partner since he couldn't fly out every month to satisfy his sexual desires. I do, however, respect his sincerity because he was simply seeking sexual connection and was prepared to reserve an Airbnb for it. Oh, my goodness, they would go to any lengths and do everything to satisfy their sexual desires.

They would only talk about how many times they could masturbate in my vagina in a single night to satisfy their sex needs. I wonder why he is treating my sacred vagina as the focus of his sexual hunger after one swore, he would beat his record. They want to transform me into Anastasia from Shades of Gray and Laura from 365 Days. They imagine having their own red room or yacht where they could experiment with every position in one night.

The desperation and helplessness of men are expressed in their seductive words about how they want to taste me and slip their fingers from my neck to my vagina, sucking my lollipops, squeezing my thighs, tease my clitoris, and immersing me in a way that no one else has ever accomplished. They enjoy having these sexy conversations shortly after dawn. They are most likely at their most hormonal at that time. How they want to be on top of me as they indulge their lust for me, and later how they want me to be on top of them so they may escape into another reality. The flavor and zing give their sexual buzz more excitement and energy.

Platonic Friendship

Friends deserve attention and care

Ah, it's been a while since I published a blog entry. I'm grateful to my readers for their patience as I wrote my other piece. Here I am in the midst of February, the last chance of winter, when the air is crisp and the wind nips at our skin.

My blog post today is about developing a platonic friendship with a new person I met who is more similar to me emotionally than sexually. Once more, I sincerely hope that reading my post brings you all joy.

I'm sitting here sipping my rose and pistachio Kashmiri chai and contemplating how to communicate to the charismatic, self-assured friend sitting across from me. After several hours of in-depth discourse, the two of them strolled through the downtown streets as the wind blew in their faces. Finally, as the evening drew to a close, we made the decision to have an honest discussion on our relationship.

Something that always bothered me growing up and still does to this day, was the idea that our friends were meant to be temporary placeholders until we found a romantic partner. The partner would be the person we shared everything with, and our friend would simply need to take a backseat to accommodate that. That we could spend time and attention and love on friends, but we had to save most of it for romantic connections. In my opinion, I don’t think intimacy is only meant  for romantic relationships.

When I refer to intimacy, I do not mean sex or any other sexual action. I'm referring to the subtle ways we let ourselves be known and the efforts we make to get to know others. The connection that  allows us to enter another person's zone where our energy and feelings of connection are compatible. And of course, this looks different for everyone. We quickly form an opinion about another person without expressing it out loud. Nevertheless, I'm speaking to platonic partnerships in this instance.

Walking by the riverside while holding hands and telling them how much they mean to you without any benefit. Hugging them as often as they will let you, sitting next to them while they sob if they are having a horrible day, or simply being present with them as they sit on the couch and do nothing. Making travel plans over the phone or calling them when they'd had a bad week to listen to them. Becoming their pillar of support, their cry-buddy, their hug-buddy, the confidant with whom all secrets are as sacred as your own and where one is not judged for their unpleasant habits. Expressing your gratitude for the memories you are creating with them in particular and assuring others—as well as yourself—that intimacy is not exclusive to romantic partners. Moreover, your buddies need and deserve your affection and attention too. 

I adore my friends dearly and they are the most significant individuals in my life, and I make a conscious effort to maintain and develop my relationships with them. They have been there for me in my times of greatest need and through the times when I felt like my entire world was collapsing. It can be easy to neglect those relationships at times just because they aren't romantic, but I genuinely believe that friendships are deserving of our love and care as well. I believe platonic intimacy is more significant than we care to admit.

I appreciate you everyone taking the time to read my blog post; please let me know what you think of it in the comments.

Love and Relationships

It is a beautiful summer day, the shining sun, birds singing and children chasing soccer, playing carefree in the playground, and here I am in my calming place having thoughts about what caused the broken bond between love and relationships especially the families. 

In this competitive pandemic mode, I believe we all have somewhat experienced trauma, whether we realize it or not. We all have emotionally hit the wall. We, human beings are here to learn from every experience we have in life and then use the same as teaching for our prospective children. But what would we teach them? that pandemic ended the time and energy between the relationships. 

The lockdown has severely affected the relationships between parents and children. The unmet needs of children ( parents are unable to pay for education fees, rent, necessities, etc) as parents had been laid off from their workplace. The unmet needs of partners, not able to pay mortgages, the never-ending credit-card debts, the separation of parents, loss of beloved ones, unable to pay for a child's needs have dug a hole in their relationships. The forced homeschooling, work from home, not able to do outdoor activities, the late-night drinks with friends have left all of us vulnerable to mental health.

We must preserve our energy and time wisely manner. It is never too late to start a new beginning. Let's take this as a learning curve and find a way to reconcile to make relationships fruitful. Several things can support the relationship.

1: Showing affection to your partner/children allows them to connect with you emotionally.

2: Saying "I Love You" can have a major impact on your relationship and gives an excellent opportunity to remind your partner/child that you love them unconditionally and they feel connected and secure.

3: I believe pandemic has given us an excellent opportunity to spend time together, under one roof. Life is short and the pandemic has taught that in a rough way. Take this time to pass on valuable teachings to your child, teach them the importance of budgeting, the family dinners.

4: Create rituals together, this could be anything from a coffee date with your child/partner, an evening walk around the neighborhood or just a movie night at home, paint night with your partner. 

5: Make time for yourself, feel your vibe. Give yourself a treat with a soothing bath, a hot stone massage, engage in self-care. This will clear your head and reboot your brain. Learn, grow, evolve and become the greatest version of who you are.

There are numerous things in my head that I can write it down but the list won't seem to end. But One day you will look back and realize how hard we were hit with the COVID-19 pandemic but how well we did. 

Do leave me a comment and let me know what topics you all would like me to cover in my next blog post.

A Promise Made To Myself

The optimism in a spring day, the cool breeze, change in weather that wasn't there a few days ago. I had the impression that the evenings are lighter and brighter. The planet earth has been reborn in her brilliance.

While the days reflected serenity and ascending of new energy, my heart went into the haziest idea acquired by a strange storm; it left me feeling foul for a few days. The anonymous uneasiness left me with a sense of falling apart. Amusingly, the hormonal imbalance in my body led to bad-temper and body hurt. Alongside trouble, dissatisfaction, outrage, broken heart, needing to eat carbs, and my battle with body and mind. Along these lines, the negative energies clogged up my brain and it had reached my heart.

Later that day, I reflected on the fruitful discussions I had with my companion about impeding somebody's energy and not enabling them with my own. The error I made, enabled the negative energy to govern me and, as a result, I was thrown directly into a burdensome situation.

The following morning, I washed up, had my hot Nescafe and egg and cheddar. Sat down for an additional two minutes of reflection, composed three things I am appreciative for now in my regular diary. I read my celebrated writer, Louise Hay's book and reviewed how not to give my capacity to anyone. I performed some meditation where I rehearsed blocking the negative energy around me and made a promise to myself to draw in positive thoughts only through my porous mind and not to be submissive to the situation.

Blessing in Disguise

My flawless - dazzling perusers. I realize it's been some time since I posted something. I might want to stretch out my Thank you to just for standing by calmly and showering your adoration towards my blog. It's a brisk read today. I trust all of you appreciate perusing my the present blog.

Don’t forget to leave a comment and your precious feedback. 

Blessed to have another day with daylight 

Blessed to have put on my grin as best cosmetics 

Blessed  to have a fresh start with adoration and bliss 

Blessed to have each new day I had the chance to go through with you 

Blessed to see you bloom each day and live on forever 

Blessed to grin with you consistently as of heart was rarely broken

Blessed to be awakening close to you lively and securely 

Blessed to be me and be free with you

Love is in the Air

Youthful Love

 In any case!! There I was, tasting my white mocha on a splendid radiant summer day. At that point I saw the leaves change the tone and the breeze become chilly, the days become more limited, and today I saw a shinning jewel looking snow pilled at my patio, it is Winter and some way or another I am drinking cinnamon hot cocoa. 

Much obliged to you to every one of my perusers for looking out persistently for my next blog entry. It's straightforward this time, here I go. 

 

The youthful new love. 

 Two spirits and one heart

Moving in verses of affection and chuckling 

Making sure about one another with their warm touch 

The smell of the first day of warm chai latte 

The main stroll in the forested areas, connected at the hip 

The cheerful hearts joined by the main kiss 

Two deserted spirits asserted by one another's the meandering soul

Thanks to the angel of love and life for repairing my shattered soul and making me strong enough to fall in love again. 

Detoxification

Much obliged to you indeed to my perusers for going along with me on my excursion to health. 

As the title proposes, now and then one needs to cleanse their mind of the foul thoughts. I, as of late confronted these two or three weeks prior and acknowledged how much my body and my psyche were influenced by one negative remark made by somebody I didn't have the foggiest idea.

We frequently attempt to depict an ideal picture out in the open without understanding a portion of our practices that could irritate somebody. I confronted a type of badgering as of late and how it influenced my mindset for good couple hours to the point where it would influence my consideration for patients and my friends and family. 

 Sooner, I understood that I required a 15-minute break for my psychological prosperity. I mentioned my partner to cover me for a couple of moments. I set aside that effort to go out to the patio, did walk and profound breathing activities. I used my chance to obstruct the negative analysis and vitality related with the remark. Besides, I conversed with my friends and family and ventilated my emotions. 

Life only sometimes tosses difficulties on the life-way we are strolling. It's exclusively on us how we need our lives to be. Given the unwelcome talk, I got in the work environment influenced my potential to fill in just as my capacity to do fundamental thinking. It influenced me for a decent hour. I realized I needed something to beat this, so I chose to enjoy a reprieve to clear my head and quit overthinking. 

Doing those methods not helped me clear my head yet additionally profited me to work productively. 

Should you be in a circumstance like I was in, try to remember the amount you are adored! 

Accomplish something that would take your brain off the negative energy and figure out how you can impede that power. Profound breathing, a stroll outside in natural air, conversing with friends and family, ventilating considerations with a companion over an espresso date, or retail treatment are a portion of the models that one can do to Do something that fulfills you.

Fighting a Good Fight

The first rays of sunlight pouring through my window, lit up my room, bringing with it new hopes and joy. Today I would like to begin by appreciating my readers for taking out the time and finding value in my thoughts and leaving me in thought-worthy comments. Some of you have reached out to me and expressed gratitude towards me for sharing my perspectives dependent on genuine encounters that the greater part of us has experienced. 

 

I am glad that I have been able to make a difference in at least one person's life through my blog and my thoughts. The life challenges I experienced and how I went to bat for myself when the greater part of the network individuals continued suffocating me in the shadows of darkness.

 

Life is full of wonders and obstacles. It's our concept of how we need to see the preliminaries and hindrances of our lives. I had a fantastic talk with several perusers who came to me for direction on the best way to get over with the existing challenges.

How I held myself intact and remained optimistic while, on the other hand, my whole world was falling apart. The presence of mine that has been lost in agony and distress. In a nutshell, I experienced harmony when I acknowledged the challenges I faced. Although the challenges were sour except sweetness poured when I showered myself with selfless love. The love I fancy for myself, the love I yearned to give myself. 

 

The principal thing I gained from my preliminaries was to anticipate things from myself and not from anybody. It is me who realizes what I needed for myself. I positively cannot anticipate that someone else should satisfy those wants for me. 

 

I had dull bleak days encountering brain fog, days where I would sit down in space for over 48 hours without a beam of daylight. The days when lorazepam quieted my sensory system. It all came to an end when I decided not to get myself diagnosed with depression. 

 

To defeat despair, I began to dress up every day even though I did not aspire to, yet pushed my inner-voice to accept a new dare every day. 

I suited myself in athlete attire and danced rhythmically in front of the mirror.

I strolled each day under the warm orange-tinged sky, to breathe in the natural air and breathe out the poisons out of my lungs. 

I made new companions, somebody who might permit me to ventilate my sentiments with and get associated with me at a similar frequency. It is critical to discover a certified companion to trust to. I am honoured I filled in as a stage for those requirements. I wish I had somebody who might be listening who could have helped me escape my miserable days quicker. However, I am respected my perusers have permitted me to be there for them when required the most. 

Reading Louise hay helped a lot, especially the mirror work and other exercises to forgive my accusers and me for the decisions that were not meant to be taken. 

Acknowledged reality and figured out how to proceed onward without any second thoughts of at all. 

 

Life only sometimes shoes us the self-contradicting reality that we regularly claim to disregard. Even though humanity is caught in the trial of the real world, it is essential to remain centred towards the ultimate objective by keeping a positive methodology towards life. Never surrendering and having confidence in all-powerful (or, any heavenly force). 

I followed a similar schedule each day for a decent 18 months before I pardoned myself and the informer for the bad behaviours. Gladly, I can say, today I am in my cheerful spot. Where there is only a bounty of affection for me. 

 

There is one life and we should take it as a blessing and not waste it by being miserable for the things we cannot control. What we can control is our mindset/attitude – keep it positive, keep your chin up, keep the fight going on, live for another day, keep that beautiful smile on your face because you never know who might be looking up to you as a source of inspiration. If you are strong from within then nothing from the outside can shake your world.

Innocent Friendship

Friendship/Companionship - A metal chain or a slight string!

A glorious day, starting with a searing sun, a yummy drink of white mocha with an additional sugar finished off with whipped cream. A day of bliss. 

My blog today is about fellowship.

I would like to thank the Almighty for blessing me with a few good friends who have stuck with me through thick and thin. 

 As of late, an unfiltered companion entered my universe of joy and warmth and was so appreciative of my wild spirit. He was uniquely here for precisely 21 days before he started to utilize my innocent kinship side for his potential benefit. My dear undesirable companion, Much obliged to you for halting out and about my life and reminding me to regard my valuable relationship with the individuals who have been there with me since I entered the truth of life. You utilized me for your advantage, and when I requested a similar courtesy in return, you had the challenging capacity to reject my proposal without letting me finish my sentence. 

 These days companions have started utilizing each other for their potential gains and, once the advantages are terminated, they move onto the following one. Unadulterated kinship is worked with affection and blossoms throughout the long term. 

For example, we water a seed so it could develop into a tree that would give the organic product in later years. Similarly, the grain of productive companionship is planted and watered with unqualified love, giggling, fights, and healthy confrontations. However, affection between them never blurs away. 

The fellowship that has a sans judgment zone. 

True mates are difficult to get by, and by the grace of God if you find one, hold them for a lifetime. Though, it doesn't make a difference in what they will consistently be there for you. We don't get to choose our blood relations of parents and siblings, and they may not appear in troubling occasions, yet a genuine companion will even surrender sleep for you; so that one is not alone during testing times. Either it's coming on the web through skype (during their degree talks), or it will be there with you on the telephone for 24 hours (with a day and night distinction), considering the time contrast between nations. 

Lyrics of Love

Dancing on Lyrics of Love

We all have once in the course of our lives have attempted to respond to this very question - What is Love?

Individuals state its chemistry, others say its commitment towards our soulmates, friends, children, or others. Love is additionally about Compatibility. It is about having comparative preferences, interests, methods of carrying on with life and philosophical perspectives. The more grounded the science, responsibility, and similarity, the more grounded are the underlying foundations of the relationship.

Everybody includes an alternate significance of fondness. My understanding of fondness maybe not quite the same as my perusers.
For me, Love is the wealthiest component inside the world that one can claim. Love, a vital ingredient of life, that cannot be calculated in decimeters, milligrams or hectares. Nonetheless, it is a magnificent expression of freedom and pleasure.
Love is greater than you and me. Love doesn't accompany terms and conditions; it cannot be purchased or sold, in contrast to gifts or donations. Love cannot be constrained, you cannot make somebody love you, or even forestall it.

Want to know my verses of affection?
It is conforming to somebody's spirit, their thoughts and frequency before physical touch. Love happens when there is an association between two people with an equal frequency. I feel the sky or universe could be a little portrayal of my affection for you.
My Love is seeing forever in your eyes.
My Love is being secure in your arms.
My Love is feeling the warmth of your bear hugs.

Mi Amor, you are my rainbow and my sunshine.
You sprinkled my wildly disembodied spirit with shine.
You filled my heart with shades of joy and euphoria.
You soothed my well-being with your compassionate touch.
You caught my fear and set me free to fly up high like a bluebird.
You drove my overcast days away and glittered my smile with your sparkle and love.
You are the medicine of Peace to my soul and to my life.

You are My Lyrics of Love.
I am grateful to be loved by you.
You and I, ten thousand lives together.
Je t'aime

Mystery to Goodness

Thankful to my perusers for showering fondness to my blog and convincing me reliably to work my heart out. 

An extensive parcel of you presently understands that I'm functioning as a Registered Nurse and, my new blog is tied in with something that I was told seven days back by an old woman in my work region. 

Old individual: "Poor child, God has made you so Ugly!" 

At the point when the words came out, I ended up undermined, which isn't wonderful and showed up especially supremacists. Additionally, I'm certain the greater part of the individuals will have the underlying idea of accepting the remark as discourteous and supremacist. 

In any case, I reacted and stated, "I am sure you are a benevolent individual someplace inside, and at present, it's essentially your disarray that is expecting power over that, made you think I am made "Revolting" by God. 

Several associates and a nursing teacher close to me valued my concept of transforming an apathetic remark into a positive remark and changing the entire atmosphere around me. 

The whole motivation behind composing the present blog is to react to individuals' presumption that we now and again face upsetting conditions each day, in any case, it's up to us people to see and acknowledge issues. I have consistently grasped myself for who I am and I realize that the negative emotions inside us are ugly. As I did, I may have experienced a cynical procedure, and later I may have demolished my total day by bedding pessimism around myself. Rather, I moved the emanation from negative to positive that conjointly served to de-heighten the circumstance. 

I turned around the critical tone by eliminating negative powers and removing despair from my heart and psyche. To be specific, I accept this is the key to goodness.

Tears of Pain

Tears that fall form heart and cover your soul

I suppose today, it was crucial to observe people around me so that I could make a life decision. My contemporary blog is on how I kept moving forward regardless of what is happening. Now, through this blog, I want to cry with all my heart.

My morning initially began the way I always envisioned. Pearly shining water, dazzling celestial rays, exhilarating moments, meaningful conversations of life, and gentle music as we rode to the lake. The dawn unexpectedly emerged and my marvellous day had begun in agony.

Today I lost myself once more in the depths of misery,
The nagging pain in the heart remained silent,
The words and the suffering went unheard and untold,
Seated in the room alone with puffy eyes,
Thinking where I have gone wrong

Is there something wrong with me?
Was my smile cocky?
Was my robe seductive?
Was my black legging a need to ask for?
Did that bosom tempt you?
Yeah, perhaps that's why you have stared at them for minutes.
Was my body language irresistible?
Wait, I was sitting on the chair, comfortably.
Was I beguiling through my tone of voice?
Still, I was merely talking about how my day was.
Did my clothes describe my character?
Maybe, a round-necked baggy t-shirt uplifted you.
Was my exquisite pair of Mojave-coloured Kayano's were captivating?
Was I invigorating your excitement?
If yes, then how?

If not mentioned above, what was it then?
Why the unwanted touch?
Which got you thinking about my "need?”
Hence, the question has remained unanswered, forever.

Despite that, thank you for showing me the ingenious and naive face of your noble trait. We are working hard and building empires to please members of our society, we gain a name in the world, but somehow we failed to cleanse ourselves and our souls with compassion and empathy.

The burning pain ended with a gentle hand, a warm coffee and reassurance of safety. The night was then wrapped in warm mother hugs and kisses. Princess, once again, bloomed overnight with happiness and love. 

The Antidote of Greed

My today's blog could be a subject of questions and mixed feelings. I am confident that my post can impact the audience on the significance of accepting who we are for and getting settled with our skin. Nevertheless, the articulation of considerations and remarks are exceptionally valued. Please enjoy the read.

 Dalai Lama said, “The true antidote of greed is contentment. If you have a strong sense of contentment, it doesn’t matter whether you obtain the objective or not; either way, you are content."

Over the years, I have observed that many of us are not content with our skin. We now and again talk about accepting ourselves as we are and, yet we go out and glamorize ourselves with a pinch of sugar and spice.
For instance, people have started going under the cutting edge to look more energetic. A few of us have gone through skin lightening treatments, bosom enhancements, botox treatments, or implant surgeries (either butt, bosom or dental - just FYI California doctors are best for inserts on the off chance that somebody is needing to complete it).

We have engaged ourselves in a race of wanting more to suffice the wants of society. Along these lines, we disregard to acknowledge ourselves how we are and how we take a gander at ourselves.
The sorry reality about human existence is that we are not a similar individual to everyone around us. We must keep in mind that not everybody will like us, and such is reality. In this illusionary world, let's not detach ourselves and claim to be some else; somebody who isn’t us. Individuals see what they want to see, we don’t need to portray ourselves as another person. We should simply acknowledge ourselves as who we may be.

Self-acknowledgment accompanies inward acknowledgment and causing harmony with what we do have and what we don't have. It's rare. We attempt to decorate ourselves from outside, yet we disregard that genuine beautification lies inside.
Contentment, once achieved, is the most noteworthy form of Happiness as we look past the wants of needing more throughout everyday life.

I asked for coffee not your opinion

Seldom I question myself, why people in our community believe that they are more superior to anyone else?

I don't get why everyone on this planet is engaged in a competition to reach on top!
People, nowadays, are willing to go to an extent to bring someone down. It's difficult to describe what makes an individual think that they are more powerful than anyone else around them.
Is that because they have an ego?
Is it about an attitude?
Or, maybe is it jealousy that is causing attitude and ego? It often becomes challenging to distinguish between the two. Thanks to our fickle-minded brain.

Today, I ask for your guidance to help me understand the concept of Egoism. What makes an individual egocentric? Why everyone is all about "I", "Me" or, "Myself."
Is it because of Money?
Is it because of Superiority?
Is it because of the Elite rank in society?
Is it because of the executive leadership position at the workplace?
Is it because one has achieved a terminal degree (the highest level of academic degree)?
Is it because you manage to live a fanciable life?
Is it because you have high-end automobiles?
Or,
Is it because you wear nothing except glamorous attires?

Who am I though? Everyone works hard towards their dream goals; not just one person does. Then, why so much ego? Why everyone presumes they are wiser than anyone else in the room. Habitually, we neglect to understand the second person and, we end up suggesting them our ways to live life.
Umm, sorry? I actually did not ask for that advice. Sadly, this is the reality we live in. We have chosen not to listen to our parents or guardians for any life lessons (most of the time witnessed in families). In this day and age, everyone is smart enough to know how to live their own life, and, if by chance, a lifestyle suggestion is proposed, people are offended. This concept is beyond my understanding. How about for one moment we acknowledge what's being said. Maybe that's for our own betterment. One must be versatile and receptive to feedback.

Every person has the right to live their own lives based on their desires and demands. It's an individual's discretion if they want to stay low- profile or high maintenance. I find it unnecessary to advise someone on how everybody should live their lives. Then why so much criticism?

There is a reason we have The Canadian Charter of Rights and Freedom (If anyone is not familiar with rights; here is the link you can copy and paste: https://laws-lois.justice.gc.ca/eng/Const/page-15.html#h-39)

The turnover! How about we fuel up our souls with love and kindness for all. We often forget to see the perspective of the second person and what they have been through their lives. We, as human beings, have no right to disgrace any kind. Accept how others live, embrace the flaws, behaviours, ethics and personalities shared by all people. No one is perfect; neither you nor me.
Hence, one should possess a contentment trait for what they have and for what they deserve.


Thank you once again for giving a quick read to my blog.
If anyone knows the answer to my random thought, please drop me a comment.

Life: A Roller-Coaster Ride

A ray of hope in darkness is the only fuel to continue the Journey called Life

 Life isn't fair sometimes and many of us would admit to that. Everyone goes through ups and downs. Yet, we must savour the ride no matter what tests and trials we go through. I wish my today's post can provide reassurance to my readers whose life has been a rollercoaster.




Are you worried about an ambiguous future?
Are you worried that they departed?
Are you worried that they didn't apologize to you?
Are you worried that they lacked communication?
Are you worried that they deprehend your conversations?
Are you worried that they couldn't read your erogenous lips?
Are you worried that they couldn't embrace your emotions?
Are you worried that they labelled you as a butterface?

Don't worry if they truly being a Dunce,
Don't worry if the ocean of love evaporated,
Don't worry if they constrained your existence,
Don't worry if they undervalued your worth,
Don't worry if your self-esteem is withered,
Don't worry if your relationship ceased,
Don't worry if you are slumping down with grief,
Don't worry if you lost your trust and boldness,
Don't worry if you lost the ability to voice your evaluations,
Don't worry if you are walking on a pathway by yourself,
Don't worry if you couldn't suture the wounds they gave you,
Don't worry if they humiliated your beliefs and self-integrity,
Don't worry if they don't hold strong emotions towards you,
Don't worry if they broke nightly rituals of affection,
Don't worry if they shifted their focus towards sex kitten,
Don't worry if they went hanky panky with a masseuse,
Don't worry if precipitously you were not the person of interest,
Don't worry if something didn't go the way you wanted it to be.
If only survival was this easy, it wouldn't be called "Life"

Señorita, don't you worry about anything because your spirit and faith in God will always be with you no matter what.
Have faith in your existence. Everything will begin to settle once the right time and place unite, once for all.
Numerous times you will break and would want to divert back.
Your heart would go through infinite emotions. Keep endeavouring even though your heart would jump beats now and then. Nevertheless, my girl, stay strong and stubborn to achieve the quality of life you have always dreamt of. Keep thriving for the life you wanted for yourself.
The world doesn't cease and neither should you.

Mi Amore, Stay happy and set your creative soul on fire to grow vigorously. Believe me, a year from now you are going to be the fortunate person on the planet.



Have anyone of you guys have gone through a turmoil in life that shifted your entire world from north to south?
 We face challenges in our lives periodically except, we are reluctant to address the tribulations momentarily. We are terrified of transformations however, one must not forget that some changes are healthful for our well-being.
Thank you once again for giving a quick read to my posts. I hope you all enjoyed reading it.
Love,
Navneet
XOXO