Love and Relationships

It is a beautiful summer day, the shining sun, birds singing and children chasing soccer, playing carefree in the playground, and here I am in my calming place having thoughts about what caused the broken bond between love and relationships especially the families. 

In this competitive pandemic mode, I believe we all have somewhat experienced trauma, whether we realize it or not. We all have emotionally hit the wall. We, human beings are here to learn from every experience we have in life and then use the same as teaching for our prospective children. But what would we teach them? that pandemic ended the time and energy between the relationships. 

The lockdown has severely affected the relationships between parents and children. The unmet needs of children ( parents are unable to pay for education fees, rent, necessities, etc) as parents had been laid off from their workplace. The unmet needs of partners, not able to pay mortgages, the never-ending credit-card debts, the separation of parents, loss of beloved ones, unable to pay for a child's needs have dug a hole in their relationships. The forced homeschooling, work from home, not able to do outdoor activities, the late-night drinks with friends have left all of us vulnerable to mental health.

We must preserve our energy and time wisely manner. It is never too late to start a new beginning. Let's take this as a learning curve and find a way to reconcile to make relationships fruitful. Several things can support the relationship.

1: Showing affection to your partner/children allows them to connect with you emotionally.

2: Saying "I Love You" can have a major impact on your relationship and gives an excellent opportunity to remind your partner/child that you love them unconditionally and they feel connected and secure.

3: I believe pandemic has given us an excellent opportunity to spend time together, under one roof. Life is short and the pandemic has taught that in a rough way. Take this time to pass on valuable teachings to your child, teach them the importance of budgeting, the family dinners.

4: Create rituals together, this could be anything from a coffee date with your child/partner, an evening walk around the neighborhood or just a movie night at home, paint night with your partner. 

5: Make time for yourself, feel your vibe. Give yourself a treat with a soothing bath, a hot stone massage, engage in self-care. This will clear your head and reboot your brain. Learn, grow, evolve and become the greatest version of who you are.

There are numerous things in my head that I can write it down but the list won't seem to end. But One day you will look back and realize how hard we were hit with the COVID-19 pandemic but how well we did. 

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A Promise Made To Myself

The optimism in a spring day, the cool breeze, change in weather that wasn't there a few days ago. I had the impression that the evenings are lighter and brighter. The planet earth has been reborn in her brilliance.

While the days reflected serenity and ascending of new energy, my heart went into the haziest idea acquired by a strange storm; it left me feeling foul for a few days. The anonymous uneasiness left me with a sense of falling apart. Amusingly, the hormonal imbalance in my body led to bad-temper and body hurt. Alongside trouble, dissatisfaction, outrage, broken heart, needing to eat carbs, and my battle with body and mind. Along these lines, the negative energies clogged up my brain and it had reached my heart.

Later that day, I reflected on the fruitful discussions I had with my companion about impeding somebody's energy and not enabling them with my own. The error I made, enabled the negative energy to govern me and, as a result, I was thrown directly into a burdensome situation.

The following morning, I washed up, had my hot Nescafe and egg and cheddar. Sat down for an additional two minutes of reflection, composed three things I am appreciative for now in my regular diary. I read my celebrated writer, Louise Hay's book and reviewed how not to give my capacity to anyone. I performed some meditation where I rehearsed blocking the negative energy around me and made a promise to myself to draw in positive thoughts only through my porous mind and not to be submissive to the situation.

Blessing in Disguise

My flawless - dazzling perusers. I realize it's been some time since I posted something. I might want to stretch out my Thank you to just for standing by calmly and showering your adoration towards my blog. It's a brisk read today. I trust all of you appreciate perusing my the present blog.

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Blessed to have another day with daylight 

Blessed to have put on my grin as best cosmetics 

Blessed  to have a fresh start with adoration and bliss 

Blessed to have each new day I had the chance to go through with you 

Blessed to see you bloom each day and live on forever 

Blessed to grin with you consistently as of heart was rarely broken

Blessed to be awakening close to you lively and securely 

Blessed to be me and be free with you